As hurricanes go, we were awful lucky that Irene didn't slam us too hard while on Long Island. We woke at 3 a.m. to a power surge and the storm began to rage. By 11 a.m. it was mostly gone. My sister and boyfriend were with us from London, and I think it was pretty special to all be together during that storm, if only for 48 hours. And I learned a little, I think.
I learned that living with power is a blessing, and we ought to be more grateful for it.
I learned that living without is truly wonderful too: reading by candle-light, playing card games, and talking, so much talk to each other.
I learned that a hurricane makes neighbors walk around and talk to each other, and help each other, and drink together. I think that's nice.
I learned that even neighborhood kids to look up at some strange lady taking their picture and totally get it: This is something we will never forget.
I learned that Sal D's will never close, no matter how bad the storm and the food is always, always incredible.
I learned that if my grandmother is still wandering around in the dark after 8 p.m., she wants to stay up and talk about her life. You should listen. Even if you heard these stories before. She won't be around forever to retell them, and each time I learn something new about her.
I learned that I am and will always be an Islander. A hurricane is like a badge of honor. I have now gone through two in my lifetime there.
I learned that I haven't shot spot or weather-related photos in nearly a decade, but I still totally have it.
I learned that if your oldest friend from childhood and your sister's oldest friend from childhood are both drinking at the same bar, that has no power, but cold beer, you better believe you and your sister are going to be there in a flash.
I learned that you need to cheer for LIPA when they drive by with their utility trucks because they will totally honk back at you and flash thumbs up!
I learned that Napper's hasn't really changed since high school and I like that.
And I learned that the sky after a hurricane is a sight to behold.
